For months, I worked on the music for our wedding day. I spent hours putting together my perfectly crafted playlists for various times throughout the day, before the band would start. I searched through my entire music library, and I found online recommendations, for “love songs” of all different genres that could appeal to the many different generations represented at our wedding.
{Image with G-pa Ginger courtesy of Mark Hayes Photography}
At times, I thought this a stupid endeavor; a complete waste of time. But I was shocked to receive many compliments on the soundtrack of the day.
So, if you are interested in doing something similar, I will share my playlists, in order, with you. For each song, I will do my best to link it to a video or audio clip. So without further ado:
Pre-Ceremony
{guest photo}
This music played as guests were arriving and taking their seats. This list is approximately 1 hour long, and played on repeat until the ceremony began.
- Chris & Thomas: You’re the One I Want
- Jack Johnson: Better Together
- Hank Williams, Sr: Baby, We’re Really in Love
- Ben Harper: Everything
- The Platters: Only You (and You Alone)
- Bob Marley & the Wailers: Satisfy My Soul d
- The Avett Brothers: Offering (If you listen to just one song in this post, it should probably be this one.)
- Iron & Wine: Love and Some Verses
- Johnny Cash: Rose of My Heart
- Dispatch: Carry You (I have no idea why this song is set to scenes from Gladiator – was it used in the movie? Anyone know?)
- Peggy Lee: Fever
- Jason Mraz (ft. Colbie Caillat): Lucky
- Amos Lee: Arms of a Woman
Recessional/Post-Ceremony
This playlist began with our recessional, and continued to play as guests cleared the ceremony area. The playtime is approximately 30 minutes.
- Nina Simone: Feeling Good (We modified this song to start right as she sings …and I’m feeling good… just before the music starts. Approximately 0:38 into this video. Edited version below.)
- Ray Charles: Hallelujah, I Love Her SoBarry Louis Polisar: All I Want is You (this one has kind of a creepy ending that we edited away)
- Ingrid Michaelson: The Way I Am
- Jason Mraz: I’m Yours (from the Casa Nova Sessions)
- Al Green: Let’s Stay Together
- Yardbirds: For Your Love
Happy Hour
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By far the longest of the playlists; this played as people enjoyed appetizers, lawn games and mingling, and the wedding party gathered together and took photographs. The total playtime of this list is approximately 3 hours.
- Morphine: You Speak My Language
- Marvin Gaye: How Sweet It Is (To Be Loved By You)
- Frank Sinatra: Fly Me to the Moon
- Stevie Ray Vaughan: Pride and Joy
- Cream: Sunshine of Your Love
- Arctic Monkeys: Baby, I’m Yours
- Langhorne Slim: The Electric Love Letter
- The Black Keys: Keep Me
- Bright Eyes: Mushaboom (live recording)
- Jason Mraz: I Melt With You
- VHS or Beta: You Got Me
- Ana Serrano: Paradise
- Jack Johnson: Better Together
- Sam Cooke: You Send Me
- Ray LaMontagne: Hold You in My Arms
- Van Morrison: Crazy Love
- Dave Matthews Band: Crush
- Ray Charles: Come Rain or Come Shine
- Chris and Thomas: You’re the One I Want
- The Maccabees: Toothpaste Kisses
- The Eels: Fresh Feeling
- M. Ward (ft. Zooey Deschanel): Never Had Nobody Like You
- Al Bowlly: Guilty
- Wilco: On and On and On
- Holly Golightly: My Love IsThe Platters: Only You (and You Alone)
- 311: Love Song
- Louis Armstrong: La Vie En Rose
- Brett Dennen: The One Who Loves You the Most
- Tom Waits: Sea of Love
- Bright Eyes: First Day of My Life (this video makes me tear up every time!)
- Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeroes: Home
- Death Cab for Cutie: Soul Meets Body
- The Beatles: Besame Mucho
- Keller Williams: Love Handles (or audio only)
- The Cure: Just Like Heaven (acoustic)
- Devendra Banhart: Baby
- Bob Marley and the Wailers: Is this Love
- The Features: The Idea of Growing Old
- The Pipettes: I Love You
- The Postal Service: Such Great Heights
- Louis Armstrong: On the Sunny Side of the Street
- Feist: My Moon My Man
- The Refreshments: Down Together
- Hank Williams, Sr: Baby, We’re Really in Love
- The Avett Brothers: OfferingMarvin Gaye: If I Could Build My Whole World Around You
- The Scabs: Where I’m At
- The Ordinary Boys: I Love You
- The Black Keys: Nobody But You
- The Rifles: She’s the Only One
- The Pixies: La La Love You
- Tears for Fears: Head Over Heels
- Islands: Jogging Gorgeous Summer
- Matt Costa: Sweet Rose
- The Cure: Lovecats
- Peggy Lee: Hallelujah, I Love Him So
Additional Suggestions
These are songs that didn’t quite make the cut for my primary playlists, but may fit within your playlist a little bit better.
- Billie Holiday: Love is Here to Stay
- The Black Keys: Hold Me in Your Arms
- The White Buffalo: Love Song #1
- The Black Keys: Everlasting Light
- Buena Vista Social Club: Dos Gardenias
- Citizen Cope: Sideways
- Death Cab for Cutie: Follow You Into the Dark
- Dispatch: Out Loud (audio only)
- Hooverphonic: Mad About You
- Jack Johnson: Do You Remember
- Johnny Cash: Would You Lay With Me
- Kevin Devine: You Are the Daybreak
- Joshua Radin (ft. SchuylerFisk): Paperweight
- Madeleine Peyroux: Always a Use
- Nina Simone: Turn Me On
- Paul Michel: You, My Only One (audio only)
- Sia: Breathe Me
- Curtis Mayfield: So in Love
- Dean Martin: Sway
- Michael Jackson: The Way You Make Me Feel
- Ray LaMontagne: You Are the Best Thing
- James Brown: I Feel Good
- Michael Buble: Everything
- Pearl Jam: Just Breathe
Whew! That a lot of music. I hope this list can help some of you, but it is certainly non-exhaustive. What awesome songs have I forgotten?
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